The first part of this series, we explained that the person's temperament (under Hou Enuo Information System) How to affect their minds is how it works and how to mobilize each needs the spirit of war in this regard. We are looking to consider Supines in five different temperaments, and now.
Worthless: "I do not have any value, I am worthless; others better than me" "I am not important, I should not have a spot on Earth!"
Defect: "I will never be perfect, I have so many defects, people told me, I do, or I look great, but I know better!"
Hurt feelings: "I hope that we will not hurt my feelings, I need to be so sensitive." I want my birthday flowers, but I have never received any. "I want to go to the mall with my friends, but they never asked me why they do not know what I want?" I just want to crawl into a hole and disappear!
Revenge: "I will treat me the way, even with them!" "I will pull away from them when they need something I do for them, or go to their place, I would not have."
Sad loss of loved ones: "I can not believe that they died, left me alone." "This is not fair!" "I now how to do? I can not handle alone!"
Guilt: "I am responsible for everything that goes wrong." This is always my fault! "" I do not want to be responsible for their own decisions. "
Supine, their mind is actually a local processing and classification, and their ideas. This is a time when they think they should say what they can say. They like to put forward their own ideas, to leave, so that they can pull them, they want to. supines tend to think that the past and to re-examine it, but it may lead to their joy and sorrow and emptiness.
If you sit too many negative thoughts, and they really can not stand, they may try to escape with drugs, alcohol, sex, pornography, gambling, For these and so these ideas is really nowhere to hide, because it is then open The more negative thoughts and feelings, sadness, guilt and remorse.
The supine negative thoughts, how can be turned to positive thoughts?
First, they must see themselves as children of God, they will be able to live the victorious life in Christ. They need to learn to say: "I accept God, not my own work, because of Christ." "I am crucified with Christ, however I live, but not I, but Christ lives in me alive, I now live I live belief in the Son of God, who loves my body and life, and to own me. "(Galatians 2:20)
To see that their work is in progress. They have a difficult time to accept pay tribute to defects, because of their ideas. They think others see them, they must be perfect all the time, but they feel that they will never be able to realize their ideal perfection. They need to learn, said: "I am created by God, he will be perfect for my faults."
Language to express anger, hurt feelings need to be resolved. They tend to expect others to understand their own minds and know what they want. When people do not read their minds, know what they want, they will be angry. They are internal to their anger, and called for anger to hurt feelings, said: "I am very angry because they do not want to offend anyone. This anger began to build, and can cause they explode! They need to learn to say: "My feelings are hurt, because ......" and then submit these hurt feelings / God's wrath.
Vengeance belongs to the Lord. "Love your neighbor." Their approach to the treatment of their lives to get other people even tend to think that, however, they are often stored vengeance, until boiling up, spewing. Sadly, when they have lost a gentle spirit. They need to learn to say: "I know that vengeance belongs to the Lord say so, their gentle spirit will be reflected in all of them to do so.
Jesus will never abandon me. They feel is denied, lost and abandoned, often entangled in the sadness of this loss exceeds the normal time. They need to learn to say: "Jesus will always be I am here." "... I will never leave you nor forsake you" Hebrews 13:5
There is no condemnation in Christ. They tend to have the weight of the world on his shoulders, and tend to think that they are responsible when things go wrong. They can actually make their own physical abuse, and thinking about how things might go wrong is responsible for. These ideas are usually unnecessary and unwarranted, they must learn to say: "My God, did not condemn me, and He held me, I know the difference!"
The following is a proposed prayer Supines to help them in this regard:
"Dad, I am glad, for your service. Please help me to remember this is your service, you, I think I submitted to you, your gentle spirit will flow through me to reach and touch others "
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